It has occurred to me, that we go thru life being "fake".. It can be at work, with friends, or even with people that we don't even know.. Why??? Are we that unhappy with ourselves that we have to be "fake" with others??? Or are we trying to be someone that we aren't in order to feel accepted into a specific group?? I've seen to many people "kissing butt" to get what they want.. Then after they are done kissing it, they revert back to the same people they were. So, have you always been "fake" or are you just "fake" for convenience??
This subject is very difficult to write about, especially because it deals with the way that people are.. The way I see it, don't pretend to be who you aren't.. Just be yourself.. Get to where you need to go or be on your own merit.. If you don't have what it takes, then empower yourself with the knowledge that you need.. But going around kissing butt, just to get you further than you can go on your own, is not good.. People do notice what you do and how you do things..
Self acceptance is key.. If you can't be happy with your own self, don't expect anyone else to be.. If you need to go thru life being "fake", there is definitely an issue that you need to deal with.
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