Sunday, August 5, 2012

PDA (public display of affection)

I was seriously thinking about this subject... I guess a little bit more now than before... I have come to the realization that a lot of us don't show public displays of affection or PDA to those that we love.. I look at my surroundings and see people texting instead of holding hands, kissing, hugging, looking into each others eyes, etc.. What happened to being close to the person that you are in love with or care for?? Is it wrong to hug, kiss, hold hands in public?? What are we afraid of?? Are we that worried about what others will say or think?? In all honesty, who cares!!! This world needs more PDA!! If we took the time to show more affection, maybe relationships would last longer..

It bothers me that we just sit there and not show any affection... We start relationships with no intent on showing our feelings.. Is that even possible?? Call me old school... But I totally love to feel that human touch!! It's so important.. When you have a bad day, and you can share that with someone, they can hug you or let you cry on their shoulder it's so worth it..... When you are able to be yourself and show how you feel in public to the person that you are with, it makes them feel important.. At the same time, you feel great... When all your affection is reciprocated, it's the best feeling in the world... I try as much as I can to show affection.. Even if it's in the smallest way... It make a world of difference to the people in your life...

 To have PDA, you just can't wish for it to happen.. You need to make a conscience effort...You will see how those around you will feel loved and cared about.. It's great to see people showing affection.. Everyone needs to know and feel loved... If not, they don't know that you truly care.. So, put the phones down and actually look into their eyes, hold their hand, and make sure that they know how you truly feel... Let's all have a great month of awesome PDA.....

1 comment:

  1. yes, I love doing PDA and also love seeing it. People now save intimicy for their gadgets...it's pathetic.

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